As a single Christian woman it might be hard to believe that marriage could actually be for you. It might be because people ask you if you are called to singleness, which makes you doubt. Or with each birthday it is harder to believe it will happen. Or every friend is getting married and you don’t even have a potential guy in sight, so it seems impossible. Whatever has gotten you to this point, believing you will get married is hard. You don’t want to waste your time believing something that just isn’t true. So you go into protection mode and stop believing that marriage will happen for you. Check out this post to see what happens when you choose to believe you will get married someday.
What makes you quit?
Whenever you embark on a goal or some big dream coming true, your brain doesn’t really like it. Your brain struggles to continue to show up and keep working towards it unless it has evidence that it is working. When it doubts that it is going to work it really just wants you to quit. So, your brain will pull out the stops to try and get you to do just that, and it uses your emotions to get you there. So this blog is all about what emotions get you to quitting and what emotions keeps you in the game.
When friendships are hard
Friendships can have rough spots. People’s feelings can get hurt. Things can be done and misinterpreted. Two humans coming together sharing thoughts about each other, can have different ideas about things. So what do you do when it gets hard? How do you want to handle it when someone lets you know that you did something wrong? Well that is what this post is all about. Read this and find out a different way to think about conflict and how thinking differently can create a wildly different result.
What having a crush is doing to your dating life
When you have a crush you are committed to thinking amazing thoughts about them. Your brain likes that because that dopamine hit comes pretty easily. So often this affects your dating life because a fake person can’t compete with a real live person. This blog shares some great questions to ask yourself, and some new ways to think about letting him go.
4 Tips for Meeting New People
I encourage single women to get out and meet people. Meet women and men, because as you meet people you open yourself up to being in a place to meet more guys. But in order to meet more guys, you want to get good at meeting new people in general. Often you can feel nervous, awkward, and vulnerable when doing this. I tackle 4 tips for meeting new people in this post. I know following these tips can transform how you show up when you are meeting new people, so check it out!