I was a guest on Tessah West’s She Just Got Real podcast where I share my story of singleness and how God grew my faith.

I remind you that marriage or a romantic relationship is not the magic remedy for the broken parts of your heart. Only Jesus can restore and redeem broken parts of your past and present.

I give applicable and practical ways to celebrate singleness and remind you of your worth and value regardless of what you currently believe to be true about yourself.

Regardless of what season of life you are in, this episode will remind you that you are more valuable than you could ever imagine. You can find peace and happiness in Jesus completely and totally single.

This is for the girl still struggling in your break-up.

You want to let it go, but for some reason your brain keeps looping on what it was, how it should have been different, how you should have been, etc.

I want to help you stop the brain loop and end it for good.

But, you need to think differently to do that.

I give you all the thoughts that are available to you, but are hard for you to come up with.

This is a guest post from Allison Marie:

"Allison Marie is a Christian blogger who has been writing about singleness for over four years. Now that she is engaged, she still loves to write about the topic and has a heart for single women and their unique callings in life. In her free time, you can find her reading a good historical fiction book, drinking a matcha latte, hiking in the mountains, or trying out new-to-her restaurants.

If you are a single woman battling with porn, there is a solution.

You want to think something is wrong with you, but I want you to know that is not the case.

The reality is that you have a human brain that has a reward system that will keep you doing things that you don’t really want to do, just so you can get the reward that your brain so desperately wants.

Underneath it all, you truly long for connection, relationship, intimacy, and love. This struggle is creating guilt, shame, disconnection, and beating yourself up.

This blog is going to talk about what is going on in your brain and what the cycle is and how it keeps happening. Then I give you 5 practical steps to put into practice today.

You are not alone in this, many single women deal with this issue. Let’s take a look at this from a different angle today and create awareness, understanding, and gain some tools to take into this battle.

Regardless of how you got here, you my friend are going on a date.

And you have all the thoughts. You’re most likely feeling excited, hopeful, nervous, and confused. It’s okay. Nothing has gone wrong. Your brain is doing it’s job.
But, let’s decide how it is going to go.

And to get you squared away I offer you 5 tips for your first date.