Angie Woods
Changing Should to Could

A lot of life happens unintentionally. You just go through the motions and you can become unaware of why you are doing what you are doing. You start thinking I should…… a lot. That feels awful, but you don’t really know how to change it. Well, I give you some practical ways to shift your thinking and go from obligation and judgment to hope and opportunity. Check it out!

Changing Should to Could
Angie Woods
Thinking about your Singleness on Purpose

It is so important for you to decide how you want to think about your singleness. If you don’t decide for yourself, it is very easy to let what other people think sway what you think. So, I encourage you to look at your singleness from God’s viewpoint. He is at work in your life. He is working it all out for your good. You might have a hard time believing that. Let’s look at some scripture and see how we can apply it to your circumstances today.

Thinking about your Singleness on Purpose
Angie Woods
5 Tips for when you are alone and feeling lonely

  1. Get good at allowing yourself to feel lonely.

  2. Drop the belief that you shouldn’t have to be alone.

  3. Don’t make being alone mean anything else about you.

  4. Decide who you want to be when you are alone.

  5. You are alone right now, and that this doesn’t mean it will be forever.

Check out the blog for more details.

5 Tips for when you are alone and feeling lonely
Angie Woods
Tips for Reflecting and Celebrating this Holiday

The Holidays can be hard for single women.

It is a time of reflecting and celebrating, and both of those can be challenging for single women.

You might struggle to reflect because you can only see where things in your life haven’t changed.

You might struggle to celebrate because you are continually thinking that it would be so much more fun celebrating with someone.

I want to encourage you to allow for the 50/50 of this Holiday season and share some tips on how to reflect and celebrate even as a single woman.

Tips for Reflecting and Celebrating this Holiday
Angie Woods
You take care of things you love

Often times my clients come to me and as we peel back the layers they realize that they don’t love themselves, or maybe even really like themselves. One of the subtle consequences of that, is that they don’t take good care of themself.

They hope that a husband will come along and do the job of taking care of them, and so until then….

I want to share with you how to stop this cycle and pose some questions for what it would take to really take care of yourself. Hint: It might start with changing the way you think about you!

You take care of things you love

The Growth Mindset of a Single Woman

The Growth Mindset of a Single Woman

What if I told you that all the failures during dating and meeting guys, were actually the steps for you to get to where you really wanted to go. Would you believe me? And you didn’t even have to look at the relationships ended, awkward dates had, ghosted experiences as failures at all. That they were all just there to help you grow and change to become the person you are. Remember, if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. But when you try let’s make sure and have the growth mindset to point us in the right direction. This article talks all about the difference between the fixed mindset and the growth mindset and how to apply that to your single life.

The Lie of Not Enough

The Lie of Not Enough

Often single women get caught believing this lie, I am not good enough. When you believe this you feel unworthy and you go around hiding your value, which God has already decided. But it makes sense that your brain wants to measure you against things around you to answer the question of your value and worth. Key thing is that you don’t decide your value and worth, and neither do others. God decides your value and worth. He decided it before you were even born. And being single has nothing to do with your value and worth. But, it is just another area where you can measure yourself and fall short. So, we somehow get hung up on that belief, I am not good enough. If I was, I would definitely be married. Read more to see how you can combat this and quit believing the lie.

Stewarding Your Season of Singleness

Stewarding Your Season of Singleness

You want to do your season of singleness well. I want to help you. So often it is just consciously deciding what this will look like for you. What are you most wanting this to be about. I break down 5 areas that you can steward well in this season. We look at your body, desires, relationships, time and talents. Check this out and see where you are in each category. BONUS pdf download at the bottom.

Investing in you

Investing in you

What happens when you realize that something needs to change?

Your brain goes into hyper drive to not allow you to invest in yourself. Because your brain really doesn’t want to change. It wants to stay right where you are. And it will go to whatever links to keep you here. So, I offer some of the thoughts my brain likes to give me when I am in the same situation.