Once you realize that you do really want to get married, you start thinking about the actions that you should start taking. So, I give you some actions, but I also share different things to think to keep you open to what this process can teach you.
A lot of life happens unintentionally. You just go through the motions and you can become unaware of why you are doing what you are doing. You start thinking I should…… a lot. That feels awful, but you don’t really know how to change it. Well, I give you some practical ways to shift your thinking and go from obligation and judgment to hope and opportunity. Check it out!
It is so important for you to decide how you want to think about your singleness. If you don’t decide for yourself, it is very easy to let what other people think sway what you think. So, I encourage you to look at your singleness from God’s viewpoint. He is at work in your life. He is working it all out for your good. You might have a hard time believing that. Let’s look at some scripture and see how we can apply it to your circumstances today.
Get good at allowing yourself to feel lonely.
Drop the belief that you shouldn’t have to be alone.
Don’t make being alone mean anything else about you.
Decide who you want to be when you are alone.
You are alone right now, and that this doesn’t mean it will be forever.
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The Holidays can be hard for single women.
It is a time of reflecting and celebrating, and both of those can be challenging for single women.
You might struggle to reflect because you can only see where things in your life haven’t changed.
You might struggle to celebrate because you are continually thinking that it would be so much more fun celebrating with someone.
I want to encourage you to allow for the 50/50 of this Holiday season and share some tips on how to reflect and celebrate even as a single woman.
Often times my clients come to me and as we peel back the layers they realize that they don’t love themselves, or maybe even really like themselves. One of the subtle consequences of that, is that they don’t take good care of themself.
They hope that a husband will come along and do the job of taking care of them, and so until then….
I want to share with you how to stop this cycle and pose some questions for what it would take to really take care of yourself. Hint: It might start with changing the way you think about you!
